I don't think you need to stop wanting to travel or to meet people. It's not unusual or extravagant kind of thing to want that. I don't believe you need therapy for that at all.

What is somewhat unusual though that it causes you extreme depression and anxiety. It's somewhat unusual to be that depressed about being unable to go on vacation right now and having to wait till spring etc

Having to postpone a vacation due to work schedule or other obligations etc is fairly normal occurrence. Happens all the time. Your extreme reaction to it though appears to be out of proportion hence a suggestion about therapy (maybe you are in a wrong kind of therapy)or other treatments to help you deal with it.

There is also absolutely nothing wrong with wanting or having sex or meeting people. I see no issue with it. I think it's somewhat an issue though that you aren't meeting people or having sex yet you are extremely upset about not doing it. So maybe not therapy but life coach could be of help? Somebody to help you with developing strategies?

I believe good therapist or life coach CAN help you to develop skills and strategies how to meet women.