Thanks for the advice. She is refusing all meds. She does have therapy but the therapist told her that DBT isn't much use since she knows what to do but just won't do it. She brought a puppy into our home then went out last night after being told no, you have to stay and watch pup. When she got back in and I challenged her about it, she got so angry she threw a glass that shattered all over the kitchen tiles. I did not see her all day today then when she came in tonight she is talking away to me as if nothing happened. How do I keep dealing with this craziness?