My relationship actually is pretty good. We've had a few bumps but with some communication we've generally come through them well enough in the end. I am just going to ramble on though about some rather catastrophic thinking I am having of late.

We are in the middle of getting ready for a move in together (yay!). I have no apprehension about living with this man. So what is the problem? Let's just say that he hasn't exactly been proactive. A sense of priority about this he does not seem to have.

I realise I am the opposite to a fault. two months out I had started purging and selling what I won't be taking (we don't need two of everything). Now a month out and I have already deep cleaned everything, changed my address, arranged for cut off of utilities, hired a moving van rental and recruited my loading party.

What has happened at the other end? nothing