Wondering for those that have experienced a change in boundaries with T if that seems to feel like a change in the T.? For example, one time T is open to hugs then suddenly decides against it. Does it feel like the T is no longer able to be trusted or is supportive? Does it seem to change who they are? For example the saying ..." Your no longer the person I thought you were" ...does that fit here if a T changes their boundaries on you.