For many years I had sex with my husband even if I didn't really want to.I felt it was my obligation to since we are married.And plus,women can even if they don't want to or aren't in the mood,it's not the same as men that have to have an erection,we can just use lots of lube.

But then one day I asked myself why do I do this?What am I getting out of this?It makes me feel used so why do I do it?It's not my obligation.I have been having sex since I was a toddler because it's what's been expected of me,this is my body and if I don't want to have sex then I don't have to.

I started saying no after that.I now only have sex when I want to,not when someone else wants me to.