My husband is the doer and planner in our relationship. I tend to take things as they come. This used to be frustrating him , but after 14 years he's kind of used to it and doesn't get so bent out of shape as he once did. I stand back and let him plan, and he gets to be all master of the universe. I'm fine with him taking the reigns as long as we end up where we BOTH wanted to go.

I agree with the others though. Communication is extremely important. Is this just how he is or is he not as on board with the moving in thing as you are. This is an important distinction to make early on. Don't wait until you've been together for years before you find out that he just doesn't give a crap.