I'm pretty certain i mean fetishes. I get sexually turned on by using certain items or performing particular acts.

I feel guilt because, even though these things although enjoyable for my fiancée they don't turn her on. E.g. I have aftershocks for using rubber gloves during sex. I can get turned on thinking about them or wearing them. For her though even though she enjoys the results of me using then on her, the gloves themselves don't excite her.

To the best of my knowledge non of my fetishes are "illegal" my dangerous fetish involves only me and even if i did it with others would still be legal so long as it was consensual.