Something I really don't like about myself that I've become more aware of lately is a sense of entitlement.. I seem to think people MUST be there for me, or else..! But they have no responsibility where I'm concerned. I should just be grateful when people WANT to help me..
I feel this is anger from when I was young and my parents - who
were responsible for my well-being - didn't look after me.. They just didn't know how to. And now I feel I need to grieve that.. Not think anyone else owes me anything. People do the best they can.. They can't give others what they don't want to or don't know how to give! So I'm putting it out there now that I'm SORRY for unfairly blaming people for not meeting my needs.. They're under no obligation.
At the same time,
it's OK to have needs, and I can try to find people who are both willing and capable of meeting them. That's my freedom