My cousin went through the same basic situation.. It was incredibily hard to manage..

They also started questioning there whole relationship

Is there hope on the horizon about moving into your own place? Have you set some goals to attain?

When was the last thing you did just the 2 of you outside the house away from baby, dog, family?

Maybe a date night ? and you both need some alone time.. Can you take a walk to a coffee shop or someplace to find some time just for you ?

My cousin and his wife got there own place , was hard work , but it worked out .. There 2 daughters are now in college.

Be kind to yourself and Welcome to PC