Not sure where to post this. It could be anxiety, but since it's a more social concept I decided to post it here.

I found people who'd talk about going out of the comfort zone to be hurtful - getting mad at people who achieve "nothing", who remind them of their former selves when they did "nothing".
Or get mad at people who seem to be doing bad, or avoid them.
I'm talking about me, of course. If there's one thing I've been doing bad at all my life is being social. But I wouldn't be judging myself so harshly, as I believe in myself.

I have fear inside me, as said by my therapist. Eh, I'm gonna leave him anyway, so I don't really regard what he says.

There are things I wanted to do to get out of my comfort zone such as going to a far away university, but it was not practical as I didn't get accepted to something useful. I could switch to something I want after about a year if I got good grades there. But I can also do that in my current university, which is near home.

But I want to get out of my comfort zone to achieve things, not just for the sake of going out of it.
For instance, allot of people don't understand why I don't get out of my comfort zone for sex. Why should I do that when I want a stable and loving relationship?
And shouldn't you be getting out of the comfort zone only when you lack something in your current comfort zone? Just my piece of thought which I sense is right.
I mean, if I can get a good job with a degree, and with a plan to the future to improve my salary and variate my work, why not go for it?