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Originally Posted by GoodVibrations101
I think the fact that you know that the negative stereotype of the single is a stereotype is self-evident proof that you should not immediately judge this woman. I am single and without children, but I am very pleasant, patient, and helpful. It sounds like this woman is difficult but her difficulty is not due to her single status nor to her childfree status.
Perhaps you can proactively offer her assistance and befriend her. Or perhaps you can talk to her openly about your concerns. Or perhaps you can go over her head to make a complaint to your superior. I would save the last to your last resort.
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The weird thing abt this co worker is... I initially tried the approach that u suggested and did not work.
Befriended her - but she continued to initiate fights with me
Tried to address her concerns nicely - didn't help much
Asked from assistance from our superior and bosses - it helped a little, but the colleague soon reverted to her behavior few weeks later. in the end, i tried to seek some support from my other colleagues who were tolerating the poor work ethics of this person, and i eventually left the company =(