I understand a bit. I used to go to a chat where there was another autistic person, I have aspergers. I noticed she got away with being socially clueless while every social mistake I made was because I'm a jerk. I must have seem completely neurotypical on the surface because I was not allowed to make mistakes. I've always understood sarcasm and been able to read between the line, and I can have a proper conversation. That doesn't mean I can read minds like NT:s seem to do. That is one of the problems with being seemingly normal, every mistake you do will be attributed to something else than what is really going on.

I've been told a lot of times that I don't have aspergers. That I simply have character flaws. Eh.. OK.. Nice feedback.