I can ID with you. I used to be able to bs with everyday people in the past, but now I can’t stand being around people. I can’t stand driving either because of all the nuts out there today ! I hate dealing with people in shopping stores too.
You have to understand that in a lot of jobs small talk and gossip is just the norm. I think if you want a certain job , being able to get involved in so called “ small “ talk is a requirement ! Try and make a list of all the different jobs that you can do by yourself. It may be difficult but possible. Most jobs require you to deal with people and things you don’t like. At some point you may have to deal with it.
I wish you the best of luck. BTW : I understand how difficult it is for a younger person in today’s world.