I agree with the others - no reason to feel guilty, you've done nothing wrong, you didn't cheat since the relationship was over and you were on the road to divorce. He is guilt tripping you, which is not fair, and is not taking any responsibility for telling you it was over. I agree with Jennifer's advice -- either he drops it and moves on, or you're going to have to leave. I wouldn't accept his infantile behavior. ((((Hugs))))