They seem to have stuck themselves and their problems on me. I live in an apartment complex and awhile ago made the mistake of hanging out, drinking, and using with a neighbor girl up here. After we put the kids to bed we meet each other, either here or at her place, and get high...drink,all sorts of things. She doesn't have a job or a car and is a horrible mother...but that was aside for a using partner. Now that I've been cutting back on my drinking and using and been staying home more she does nothing but calls, comes over, and begs for rides. I assume she'll come around wanting some money soon since all her bills have disconnects. She's probably really suffering because I was the one who supplied all the drugs and booze.

I want her and her husband out of my life. My husband and I are tempted to pack up and move away from this place just to get away from these users. If I tell her "NO" in anyway she starts crying and throwing fits and won't let me off the phone till she gets a good bit of time begging in. My life is hard enough and to care for another person who contributes nothing but a party partner is getting to hard. I don't know what to do.

I'm trying to rid this %#@&#! out of my life and get better...for my kids, my family and her coming aorund all the time is making it very dificult. It's putting a strain on my home....so frustrating