((((( Veeda )))))

If you feel more attracted to and comfortable with one sex than another, then don't hold yourself back from having safe tests. Like: talking with another person about whatever; meeting them in safe places & enjoying one another's company; that sort of thing...

In the end, our children just want us to be happy and healthy. Same things that we want for them! Right? Whether another woman is right, or a man, it comes down to whether or not our children can handle seeing us romantically linked to another person at this point of life.

Imo, *that's* what matters. For me, nothing is more important than what my girls think. What anyone else in my family thinks: pfft! LOL

You do what you think is right for you. Best wishes to you!