Getting older and putting on pounds doesn't help , true. I was always slim and trim when I was younger, but I put on some pounds when in hit middle age. Of course husband did too. We try to have a sense of humor about it.
If she's not feeling sexual at all, I agree wth you. I doubt she's having an affair. I would say just keep the lines of communication open and reassure her that you find her attractive.
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