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Originally Posted by Shazerac
I think if you enter into a relationship with someone who views you as a friend, but you want more, your are setting yourself up for pain.
You need to have a discussion about you wanting more BEFORE you get involved. If she makes it clear that you are only going to be friends....Seek elsewhere for a committed relationship. 
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yeah this makes sense! I am feeling so afraid of being rejected and then having to see this person around - we do have quite a few common friends. So far I am trying to read this person's attitude towards me rather than asking directly.