He makes the most money. I'm a licensed hair stylist, so I alone wouldn't be able to support 4 kids. I do everything around whatever his schedule is, partly because I don't drive due to anxiety. We can't afford daycare even if I did work and then there's the issue of after care and after school childcare if I wanted to work as well as the weekends. We have no family here and I don't know anyone. His work hours are rediculous. Yesterday he worked 6am to 11pm. He never gets home the same time and 3 to 4 days of the week he has to go back at night. So that's why I can't even get a 2nd shift job. I try to come up with ways to make things better but nothing works and even the 3rd shift jobs hours don't work with his hours.