My apologies. I was not judging, nor trying to shame you. I showed compassion and I sided with you by acknowleding that your upset was valid. But I also merely pointed out that it seemed to be a long time to be holding onto this. That is not a judgement, but rather an observation in order to try and help. Sorry that you took my words so defensively. You, yourself, admitted that your celebrity obsessions have been interfering in your life and that you use them as an avoidance tactic. I am basing what I said off of what you've acknowledged in another thread. Again, my apologies if that upset you.