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Originally Posted by BlueCrustacean
Okay, but judging and criticizing me for having trouble with celebrity obsessions is not helping me one bit. You provided no "food for thought", that I don't already know, just more judgment, guilt and blame. How do you think that makes me feel? I need SOLUTIONS, not just condescending judgment. I can't stop until I know HOW to stop. I need compassion and support.
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Dear Blue,
I have been obsessively in love with Robert Conrad since I was a very young girl. Like every celebrity crush, it is unrequited.
In the interim, I've fallen in love with a dozen other male celebrities, which makes for a very rich fantasy life. I'm a hopeless daydreamer.
I think you're perfectly normal.
Just read the new comments. Honestly, I would cry my eyes out and be just as upset as you are and for just as long if one of my crushes were as nasty to me as yours was to you.
We've invested deep emotions, in my case, for decades. That is not something to take lightly.
I'm extremely reclusive. My daydreams have sustained me through deep deep depression and absolute loneliness.
My humble advice is that if input in this thread doesn't apply to you, don't take and keep it onboard. I say this knowing exactly how you feel.