Like I said, I based what I wrote off another thread she had written on about celebrity obsessions and this is another obsession that is interfering in her life and ability to just be happy. I disagree with you that saying he is a jerk and siding with her on how she felt was invalidating. All I did was validate her feelings. I am leaving this thread and this conversation if all people are going to do is dump on me for pointing out that a year is a long time to obsess over a celebrity being a jerk. Again, there is NO judgement. It's an observation and a reflection back on the behavior. She has talked already about her obsessions being a problem for her and how they are interfering in her life.