Hi LoveMyHubs. Welcome to Psych Central. Sorry to hear how difficult your husband is being.
Maybe some of these will be of interest to you.
https://psychcentral.com/blog/archiv...survival-tips/
https://psychcentral.com/lib/bipolar...manic-episode/
Feel free to send me a private message if you wish. I have dealt with partner with some of these symptoms as a peer.