Rose76, you may have had an epiphany your sister....or you could be completely wrong about her. No it is NOT categorically true that people who have money in the bank don't like people who don't.

I've been extremely poor at times in my life to the point of going hungry. Now I'm not poor all. I live a comfortable life. My mother is elderly and has no income other than social security which is a pittance. I'm happy to be able to pay her rent, phone, and cable bills so she have her own apartment and live independently. I don't hate, or resent her her for this. Nor do I look down on her for being poor.

Some of my siblings have turned on me and tell me I'm showing off or greedy. Sometimes I get angry and say well fine feel free to chip in, but they don't. It wounds me deeply. So I have money? Why does that make me a bad or selfish person? Everyone has different experiences, life choices and just plain luck of the draw.