Is this a new person to the group? Someone you don't know too well? What is your gut feeling about this person?
If it were me and I had a bad gut feeling, I would probably be friendly and cordial towards them, but would keep my distance until I got to know them better to see if my gut feeling was right. In other words, I wouldn't be chummy chummy with them and open up to them with my trust but still accept them within the group.
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