That's a good question. One that I don't really have an answer for. I met my husband of 14 years online. I have many relatives and friends who found their spouses on sites like Eharmony and Christian mingle.

Some dating apps are just meat margets and ways to hook up just for sex, this is true. Like Tinder, and...hmmm I'm not remembering the others at the moment.

I read an article recently in the Wall Street journal. That over 50% of people are meeting their partner online these days.

But back to your question....I would say, join social groups of a hobby you enjoy, volunteer for a cause that speaks to your heart, if you have a dog....take them to a dark park. If you jog, join a runners club. If you are a church going person, church sponsored singles meet ups can be fun. Some how you have to get out there in the world and meet people.