I've also thought of that - but my house is also a mess and i don't want to be judged. My last T worked out of her house, which was sort of interesting, sort of weird. The office was upstairs in this teeny room (like a second bedroom), there was only the one bathroom - not like a guest bathroom. Naturally, her bedroom door was always shut (the only 3 rooms on the top landing were the three i have mentioned, each maybe 3 feet away. And only once was there someone waiting for her in the living room when i left... which felt totally akward because T was telling me to take care of me and stay safe, while i was on the stairs. Then i open the stairs door and there's this person privy to my conversation. Sacreligious! When T wanted me to watch things we'd watch them in her living room on the tv. One day she was cooking and wanted to know if i could let her finish up the last 10 minutes, and she'd feed me lunch. Yipes! That was just too weird - i could never eat in front of T - i'd spill everything out of nerves. I told her to just finish and it would be no problem, but she wouldn't. She put it away and started session on time.
I do wish I could do therapy daily on line. Then i wouldn't have the akwardness of face to face or long silences. I can always type more than i can talk, anyway. Alas.
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