[QUOTE=starrysky;5831144]Also, I don't want to be a jerk to this person, like how they were to me. As much as I want to. I think it's better I (and they) have no contact.

I also have had the idea of writing to the person that has been abusive to me my whole life. After talking it over with someone on my treatment team I felt a little vulnerable and came to see that it really wouldn't have given me closure I thought I was seeking. The link you provided was good. Thank you for posting it. I wish you the very best starrysky.