I'm so sorry to hear that experience - and pissed off by it too! I'm a therapist myself (with BPNOS/2) and can say without reservation that you should never see her again. I tell each of my patients up front (first session) that the strength of the relationship between therapist and patient is the single most important factor in predicting success. I encourage them that if for any reason they feel uncomfortable with me they should let me know right away. If we can't work through it I give them referrals. This person appears to be injecting her own crap into the session and that is a HUGE no-no for therapists.