So what's the problem? LOL Wow, Sunny! You're dealing with a lot at once! It must feel overwhelming. Maybe T can help, maybe he can't. If you don't go to therapy, he definitely won't be able to help. Don't plan your trip to T, just go and let things fall where they may. It's times like these when it is most difficult to go that it is also most important. Take care of yourself, Sunny! I'm here if you need me