Hi, I am wondering how I should go about finding a boyfriend. i absolutely exclude dating sites (I find this idea appalling, I think it's total "using" of others, I think it's psychology that when you come to a site like to a supermarket.. well that's the attitude you have that women are bananas.. and you can chose this one or that one without any special responsibility, anyway, it's just that I don't like it). I would like to find a "good" man, a professional, reliable, "kind" (as far as men could be). Not like a user. Who can basically be a decent partner in life. I am 32 y.o. and I am getting quite worried whether I will be able to find anyone at all. I am a "special" kind.. because I have education but due to personal issues I work for less that what people with my level work for. So I am like an "almost". So I don't know how to present this to potential men. Anyway, do you think it happens naturally or would you rather have to work for it?
thanks for your advice