Actually, when I was working, my co-workers didn’t even bother to invite me. I wasn’t disliked, I just had a different position in the company and everyone else had also worked there for years. I know it wasn’t personal dislike - they just didn’t bother to feign politeness lol

I did accompany them a few times to lunch. But it was ho-hum conversation....I was younger, too. Mature adult but they were older with children, etc. I did legal work in-house and they did corporate office work. I kind of felt isolated, no one to talk about a work issue, etc.

Sad, but true. I don’t miss that job.

With weddings, it’s often customary where I live to invite certain people for politeness. I don’t know how I feel about that.

Do what you want or what is best for YOU.