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Originally Posted by Elio
I can try is a perfect answer, and yes you make perfect sense to me.
My T considers this a form of disassociation. When you can't track what the other person is saying because your head is fuzzy and for me it's like the words bounce off me, I don't know what they mean. It has taken some time, but I think my T has started to catch my body language around this place for me and has been able to ground me back the last few times. One thing that I think helped was after the fact letting her know when things went fuzzy for me, when I lost connection.
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Hi Elio,
It's interesting that your t can tell by your body language that you are dissociating. My t seems to know also when it happens, but I am not sure HOW she knows. I know I must either look or act or sound differently, but I've never actually asked her how she knows. She will just say something like, "Who just showed up to 'take you out'?" or "What other part just stepped in and took away your feelings?"