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Originally Posted by Concerned8884
We have been in couples counseling for 2 years. It has been immensely helpful and we are very happy in all other ways but this has come up and our counselor thinks he should find an individual therapist or couples sex therapy. I guess I just wonder if there is anything I can do. I feel really helpless. And I am def internalizing this as a direct rejection of me.
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Hi Concerned,
I got here because I have the same problem as your husband, but I am not married yet. Didn't your husband have that problem before you got married? I started having it about one year after I started dating my girlfriend.
I was also wondering why the couples counseling was not able to address that issue with your husband (since I believe the counselor is a psychologist?).
My girlfriend and I love each other but we are not sure if we should get married, because of this problem. We have never tried counseling/therapy... I was hoping to find people on the Internet who have a similar problem and who could give us some hope (if the problem is solvable and if it would take too long).
Thanks