maybe, if you can't control her behavior and you can't reason with her, then all you can do is let go. (the let go and let God reasoning). suffering yourself over it can't help it either. better your put your own oxygen mask on before trying to assist others. i love that phrase from the planes...cuz i think it's really true. we can only try and if we can never control or change somebody else...it's so hard to let go though and watch somebody potentially sink...i just think sometimes that is all we can do
((((((( hugs to you ))))))))