susan, you did say something worthwhile - you reached out. Just don't take the pain inside yourself, ok? People who have been through so much (aka, everyone in PC) can take on other's pain without even knowing it. Which then boggs down that person even more. I hope you are taking care of yourself, too. Self care includes not being a sponge (i am hoping this is coming out in a 'loving manner', am not trying to put anyone down)... transfered trauma can happen just in supporting and we can all help each other out with that so that we can all continue posting about our lives as well as being safe and healthy with each other.

I have really had tooo much sugar and am off on the former planet pluto with this one... I CARE! Really!
Hugs to everyone in this thread!!