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Originally Posted by OceanBreeze4581
That feels a little off to me. Have you given MC permission to talk to T2? I thought therapists weren't allowed to even acknowledge that you are a client unless an ROI is signed.
One of the things I love most about my therapist is that she is unbiased - the only perspective she has of me is what I bring into our sessions. I think that in and of itself is sacred. I would suggest giving it more time with T2 before allowing MC and T1 to speak with him. Let him form his own thoughts about what you are bringing into your time with him first.
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Agreed on that first part. I'm wondering if maybe it was more of a "hey, we should catch up soon!" (in general, not about me) that T2 used to transition to the thought of sharing information with MC. I mean, I guess he could have said "We should talk soon" without mentioning me, but that was the implication, but it was ethical because I wasn't specifically mentioned.
I am planning to hold off for a bit--like you said, I want him to form his own opinion of me first before being influenced by someone else's. I just hope he's willing to give me the chance...just worried because the last two times I e-mailed him, he wrote back within a couple hours. I'm just afraid I shared too much today and scared him off...(though we did schedule another session).