My husband and I are in limbo land right now. We have agreed that a divorce is best. We have came to an agreement on splitting our assets. He will be moving out and the kids and I are keeping the home.
But....he has asked to stay at the house for a few weeks to get his affairs in order. (Yes, this is as stressful as it sounds....)
So here we are pretending that everything is normal for the kids. I think we should wait until he finds a place to live so we can show them that we have everthing worked out and they have nothing to worry about. He says we should tell them now so they have time to process before he moves out. I'm concerned it will confuse them that we are still living together. Or running out for bank appointments. My kids are 9 and 11 and tend to be high anxiety to start with. Does anyone have any thoughts or advice on this?