You can want honesty but you kind of can't demand it. The other person may not even know why, or are unwilling to tell you. Friends we made at work tend to drift away after a while. It's a normal process because sometimes the job was the only thing you have in common. In my 40 years of working I only have one sort of friend from the work years. We say hi on Facebook occasionally, but that's about it.
Moving on and finding friends that you have something in common with in the here and now and have time for you is probably your best and most healthy option.
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Eat a live frog for breakfast every morning and nothing worse can happen to you that day!
"Ask yourself whether the dream of heaven and greatness should be left waiting for us in our graves - or whether it should be ours here and now and on this earth.” Ayn Rand, Atlas Shrugged
Bipolar type 2 rapid cycling DX 2013 -
Seroquel 100
Celexa 20 mg
Xanax .5 mg prn
Modafanil 100 mg