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Old Oct 05, 2017, 11:15 PM
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I'm currently in a semi-long distant relationship. We are separated by one state and it's only a 2 hour drive at most. But I don't have a car yet and my boyfriend got into an accident months ago and is currently working to get another one. So, the distance has been getting to me but with all my worries and assumptions nothing gets easier. He has told me a few "stories" before.(lies but not bad ones) For example, he told me he didn't see his ex best friend in a romantic way but they were friends for two years and everyone would tell them to "get together" and they were gonna try but then he met me and I was the one that saved him from "settling" (lack of better words). But when that story was brought up recently he denied it and said I made it up and that he'd never give her a chance because he didn't have attraction for her. There's a million little stories like that that he's denied or messed up remembering. I think he only said those things to make me feel special or something.

But then there are times where I'll text him and my texts will say delivered, and he will come back hours later saying his phone died. This happened a lot but there were occasions where his phone was really dead and my texts didn't say delivered. (we both have iphones) so I brought that little technology fact up and he denied it and continued to say his phone was dead. Those little weird hiccups make me that much more iffy about him.

He has cheated on ex girlfriends before but his excuse was because they cheated on him. Then the story changed to just one ex girlfriend. And he's admitted to being a "professional liar" which wasn't a thing a girlfriend wants to hear. I bring up those worries and he says he wouldn't do that to me because I've been nothing but good to him and never betrayed him.

I sometimes feel he just knows how to sweet talk a woman and is playing me but other times I feel like he's being sincere. I can never tell if I'm just overthinking or my gut is saying something.

We were friends/flirting for three months and currently dating for almost 6 months now. If anybody can put their honest opinion in I would really appreciate it. If there needs to be more clarification I will add whatever necessary.
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