Hello I am 25 years old and I have the same problem. Honestly I don’t even want to unless im high or drunk. I use to be a heavy opiate addict and in 2013 met my current ex husband and got married and was taken out of that life and moved across a country. I then started heavily drinking and would only want sex with him when I was drunk. -I replaced my opiate problem with drinking- I became a heavy heavy drinker. But anyway we are now divorcing and in the end of our marriage barely had sex. Now I am trying to heal but every time I think about meeting new people on dating websites or what not I stop and think if it lead to anything I would have to be drunk! I have some insecurities but I really don’t think that’s my problem. I don’t know if it’s brain damage from past drug use or what but I feel like I have a serious problem and just want to be normal!