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Old Oct 06, 2017, 09:24 PM
GoodVibrations101 GoodVibrations101 is offline
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Originally Posted by Nammu View Post
The above posters are right. Being neutral and positive about the experience casts you in a much better light with potential bosses. You can say you were fired for academic differences and leave it at that trying to justify it no matter how right you might be never goes over well.
Denying your real feelings from the very beginning of a job is not a good recipe for an authentically fulfilling relationship in the job. I am pursuing a job I truly enjoy and am excited about. But if at the moment I legitimately am upset about a situation I am not going to pretend to feel otherwise, especially not on an anonymous website. This isn't a job interview, and I am allowed to have a few weeks to recuperate, to be angry, and to grieve like people are allowed after their loved ones die. I don't have to immediately be cheery and upbeat and in denial about what just happened to me.