confused, that is so true, our body language gives us away quite a lot.. mine does and i know it.

nope mckell, we can't... thats why i never ever tell someone to go into therapy.. i do not to be responsible in any way for making someone choose that. Once they do they can't go back so it needs to be their own strong desire... that desire is what can carry us through the hard parts. i sometimes do wish i could go back, now all i seem to see is failed potential, when before ignorance really was bliss.