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I don't know. I think if you tell him the chances of it inadvertently happen again may diminish. He may be more cautious in the future. If you liked it, and want it to happen again maybe keeping it to yourself would be a good idea.

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This was something I was afraid of in the past. That if we talked about something that he did, he would never do it again.

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However, if it is important to your treatment that he knows everything, then I would disclose it. I think your own training in this area could tell you if it is something clinically significant.

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Yes, this is me. I am from the idea that for effective treatment, nothing can be held back. This was extremely significant for me, so it has to be told. This doesn't mean I have tons of resistance and humiliation all the time, but in the end, I believe everything should be disclosed.

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Since I'm living vicariously through your therapy my question for you is...Did he have big hands? ;-)

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%#@&#! huge .
No, jk. They were of average size. lol. Of course he had to touch me with the hand that has the stupid %#@&#! wedding ring. I should have ripped it off.