You are the glass and your are part full, maybe not half, but there's something there no doubt. You are a good friend to help someone that is hurting so much. Putting that time into helping her is a sign of a very special person, which I've never doubted that you are. Yes, it would be good to pull all the people we care about under our wing and protect and love them so they would feel that. We can just do what we can though. Keep us posted on your friend. I hope she's open to going into IP and trying it.