That was quite a list I don't blame you for wanting to do what you want to do.

However, I'm not surprised that people don't won't to do 4 hours of chores with you. When people want to socialize they want to have fun...not chores.

I do wonder about you increasing task list. I kind of wonder what on earth you have to do that takes up a 3 day weekend. Are you perhaps being a cruel taskmaster to yourself?

It may be that you are confusing spontaneous invitation with a person having a lot of time on their hands. Although there is nothing inherent wrong with having time on ones hands.

As far as not wanting to do anything that you are not already a master at hints at perfectionist. You are limiting you options there. No one can be a master at everything. You certainly won't be the master at something you try for the first time.