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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
I'm kind of at an impasse. If I don't ask or at least talk to her about it, then I'm keeping something from her. We don't do that. Our relationship is built upon honesty. So this topic needs to be discussed. And I'm not going to bring this up in person because I don't want to catch her off guard. I want her to have time to think about where she wants to go with this.
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Maybe you could bring the topic up in a more general context first. That way there is no pressure on her to answer you directly and it won't catch her off guard. For example mentioning something like you have read posts about people wanting to know their Ts feelings and it made you think more your wish to want to know them but you wonder how therapists deal with these kinds of requests as you know it can be tricky.. Or something along those lines. It will help you to gauge her reaction .