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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
I'm kind of at an impasse. If I don't ask or at least talk to her about it, then I'm keeping something from her. We don't do that. Our relationship is built upon honesty. So this topic needs to be discussed. And I'm not going to bring this up in person because I don't want to catch her off guard. I want her to have time to think about where she wants to go with this.
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I agree that if this topic feels important to you then you should bring it up. On the other hand I don't think you should worry about catching her off guard. You are paying her to be your therapist and it is her job to make sure that nothing you say or ask (really, literally nothing) will catch her off guard. This is her job and you are paying her for that.