I'm 55 and have been seeing guys in their 40s....it's great! I'm really young acting for my age and many of the guys that are in my age range seem super old! I say as long as they can carry on a conversation and act mature, no need to worry so much about their age.

I do think that younger men seek out older women because we tend to know what we want, don't play games and can teach them to be better lovers.

Good luck!