i also did not like EMDR. I was dissociative and the whole eye watching -wand thing just put me somewhere else. I don't think she tapped me - I had to tap myself and i hated it. it made my skin hurt. Oh she did use a tuning fork on me... didn't see the point really. She eventually decided that nothing happened to me (didn't believe me) and tried to get me to reconcile with abuser. i quit.

I hope you have the courage to tell regular t that this isn't working and hope that he has enough sense and caring to be ok with that. If you're uncomfortable, it's not going to be thereputic. i mean, lots of us are uncomfortable in therapy - but if it hurts you or distracts you to a level where you can't do the therapy, it won't help. Kiya